Creating your reality, or defined by someone else’s?

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If you were creating your reality what would you choose?

If you were choosing your reality, beyond the definitions and the limitations of this reality what would you like to have, be and do?

We are conditioned to look through definition in this reality. This is what it means to be a daughter, son, a good parent, a bad parent etc. When we define ourselves as something, for example, a good mum then we take on all the definitions of what a good mum is. Definitions from society, our parents, our peers, ourselves, the worldview of a ‘good mum’.

How many definitions are you using to play out the patterns you are choosing?

Sometimes its great to get an awareness, of what could be occurring in your life. Sometimes, I stop and ask myself, am I catering or filling a need or obligation, or am I doing this from choice? I realized choice makes me get happier, need or obligation made me feel crunchy and contracted.

Asking questions can open up your awareness to the multitude of possibilities that are available to create the life your way.

Are you choosing this reality or yours?

What would you choose if nothing could limit you?

What would it take for you to give yourself permission to have all that you desire?

What would it be like to lovingly and powerfully occupy and be in all of your space as you fully own your reality?

What would it be like to make choices which align with who and what you desire in moving forward?

Anxious? Experience an energy shift – woohoo

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I love how we can choose to shift energy and how this shows up so quickly 🎁.
I had a call from the school, lol, well actually the lady at the front office .. advising that my son said he was feeling like he was going to throw up.
‘Okay’, I said. ‘Can I ask you a question’? ‘Is the house captain speeches on today?’ ‘Yes they are’ the lady replied. I said ‘Could you keep my son at school?’. I know what this is … and explained what I was sensing.
I could feel my sons anxiety and most likely he was processing everyone else’s emotions – god bless him.
Now none of you do that do you? 😉


The lady advised she would get the deputy principal to support my son and I requested that in this support he called the anxiety out. Of course if he was sick I was happy to collect him.

We hung up and I could feel the anxiety .. I said to myself .. the universe .. God .. whoever was listening really.. ‘What energy, space and consciousness can I be to hold the space for my son to deliver his speech with ease?’
I added “What energy, space and consciousness can my son be to deliver his speech with ease, joy and have so much fun that he laughs about it?’

I did this till I felt the anxiety fall away – it took about five minutes tops!!

I met my son after school and this is what happened.

1. He ran out of school with a huge grin on his face and said mum I nailed the speech.
2. He read the speech to me with enthusiasm
3. The next day he was elected HOUSE CAPTAIN.

Woohoo .. I am so grateful

The energy of a simple request to the universe.

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I admit it…. I love this story.
One evening, I was sitting cross legged on my bed reading a book about connecting to Angels.
Signs from the Angels were one of the chapters and after reading it, I put the book down and thought to myself well… Hmmm… I am going to test this out. If this is true, you just ask for a sign that there are Angels and if the universe is conspiring to help me, well I will just ask for a sign. My request went something like this “Okay, if there are Angels, I want to see a white feather.” I visualized the white feather in my imagination. I put the book aside and went and made a cup of tea and forgot about my request.

The next afternoon, I went to collect my four year old son from pre-school. I walked across the road to the gate. My son, was in the playground with a friend and when he saw me he ran up to the gate and said “Mummy, mummy look what I found!”
He put both hands in his pockets and pulled out pockets of white feathers!